Let’s face it-confidence is sexy and you can gain confidence by practicing your skills. Your dating skills that is. You will not gain confidence from your couch at home, and you will need to practice various scenarios and with various people to get comfortable in your own skin as well as in a dating situation. It doesn’t matter who you practice with just get out there and do it! You don’t have to go all-out whether you just need some practice. A simple cup of coffee or a walk in the park with a companion can help you to practice your conversation skills and will help you to get some important feedback on your skills before you get into the dating game.
The more that you do something, the more comfortable you will get at doing it even if you are shy by nature and especially if you are shy by nature. By practicing with an escort, you will gain confidence, and you will get more comfortable and more easy-going. Many people will “blow it” simply because they are nervous and uptight. Loosen up, and you are much more likely to be yourself, and you will be less likely to clam up. When you go on a date, you want to be approachable and fun to talk to.
Something that you may find helpful is to create a list of questions to ask your date and memorize them. Go over them in your head and think of how you would answer your own questions. You can even make it onto a game of 21 questions to help break the ice.
The main thing is to remember that no one is perfect, but you want to portray your true self on your date so that they do not get the wrong impression of you. You don’t want to clam up if you are normally really talkative an have a vibrant personality.
If you are really unsure of who to ask for a practice date or two, you could go with a friend who you are not sexually attracted to, a family member, think sister, or a cousin, or you could even seek out an independent escort.
An escort service is a great resource to find someone that you find attractive to practice with since the escort you choose can be very similar to the match you are looking for on your “real” date.