You may want to consider getting the assistance of a professional dating guru. Yes, there is such a thing. A dating guru will help you to gain access to valuable tools and to develop skills to be a polished dater. Since love and dating do not have a specific formula that you can follow you can’t learn a specific set of steps to apply to every situation.
Everyone is different, and people are different, and every situation and scenario is also different. You need to be a chameleon that can change with the times and scenarios so that you can be successful when you go on your date or dates.
A guru will teach you things such as the importance of timing. Timing is important when you are asking someone on a date. It is recommended to set up a date after the 5th or 6th interaction. Consider your first couple of texts or interactions a way to break the ice and the next couple to get to know your potential date and to test the waters. If you postpone your date request for too long, you might end up with a really great pen pal, but a date will seem weird by then. Yo don’t want to let that happen.
A dating guru will help you set up your first date and will advise you on what to say. It can be tricky since you don’t want to seem too desperate, but you also don’t want to seem like you are just going on a date because out haven’t been on one in a long time and want to get back into the dating scene with whoever. You will also learn how to interpret the reactions you get and what to do if you do not get a response at all.
Even if you have not been on a date for a long time, it doesn’t mean that it is too late. It is never too late. You may get a little out of practice, but you can always get back into the romance scene. You may just need a little help. Just don’t be afraid to reach out and take it. Go on a few practice dates and get advice. You will want to polish up your “act” before you put on your show.
The most important thing is to get confidence an to believe in yourself. There are classes for pretty much anything so why not dating? Dating is just as much of an art as pottery or painting and can bring you the most happiness.